Sophie Sinclair

Domestic Disciplinarian

Had a last moment call from a new client today - or at least what would have been a new client - which provoked me to write this post to avoid further misunderstandings. He came into town, asked for an appointment and was granted access, but when he arrived here it turned out that it was an important part of his experience to be masturbated.

Now, this is a hard limit for me. I am not a prostitute, I do not offer sexual services - I am a disciplinarian who offers discipline, period. It is quite clearly written on the site that I do not offer sexual touch, and I thought it would be understood this also includes masturbation. I was wrong, and my mistake wasted not only my own time, but also that of this chap.

Please, all of you who are contemplating paying me a visit, and for whom it is important to also be masturbated, to be face-sat undressed or any other thing involving direct genital contact - please, find someone else. This is not part of what I do.

I used to be ashamed of what, and who, I am - would you believe it?! Then I came to the conculsion that we live only once, and I have a duty to myself to try to live life to the fullest. I can’t be sure that I there is a life after this, even though I hope there is. (more…)

I think maybe it’s somehow connected to my love for those with a child inside, this love I have for those who have a Lady inside. I loathe vulgarity, the “run of the mill” sissy site on the net doesn’t do it for me, so I decided to create my own tribute to this wonderful way of expressing love for Femininity.

Sissy Boudoir opened to the public today and I wish you all welcome to join me from the very beginning. At Sissy Boudoir there will be a blog, with the occasional Podcast, for a, tutorials and, in time, pictures.

Which brings me onto the next topic of this post; I am looking for Sissies, or wanna-be Sissies, who would like to session with me in exchange for allowing me to photograph our session and use the images. We can easilly cater for needs to be anonymous and obviously this session is “on the house”. You need to be in, or travel to, Stockholm to enjoy this offer but I have no particular preference in terms of body shape or size. What I want is a regular Sissy.

Anyone?!

So, today I had this very nasty call on my private cell phone from a woman.
“I hope you are happy”, she screeched. “You have ruined my marriage and destroyed my life with what you do.”

At the time I was rather stumped and it took a while for me to understand her, as I was in the middle of a philosophy class when her call came in. I then told her that I had no idea what she was talking about and that I didn’t know who she was, nor who her husband was.
“The police can tell you that!”, she snapped. “They ought to be on their way by now.”
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I turned on my phones today again for the first time in a very long while. It’s not that I don’t enjoy phone domination, I do, it’s just that I have been very busy with live work, my course and I needed a bit of a break from it all to re-capture reality a bit.

Having once again logged into Niteflirt I realised a few things;
The FemDom and Domination part of the place is inundated by Princess This and Bratty That.

Personally I don’t get it! I matured in a FemDom tradition which was proud of the craft of discipline, not one where all you seemed to be interested in was how much money you could squeese out of hapless men desperate for a shag.

Given the amount of people who get their first introduction to BDSM I find this quite serious. The net culture promotes the view of the FemDomme as a spoiled, work-shy, bitch whose only intention is to fill her need for shopping cheap lingeries and the Male Dom we shan’t speak of. He is a more abusive version of Al Bundy and is in desperate need of a door mat since he never was introduced to a mop by his mother.

This isn’t what the fetish and BDSM scene is about! It’s full of wonderfully strong, self sufficient, individuals who simply just love playing with others.

Fortunately there are a few who actually seem to be “the real deal”. Some who worship the craft as well as the skill. Welcome friends!